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National Domestic Violence Awareness month hits home

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  • By Airman 1st Class Joshua Chapman
  • 92nd Air Refueling Wing Public Affairs
FAIRCHILD AIR FORCE BASE, Wash. --  For 21 years the United States has recognized National Domestic Violence Awareness month in October in an attempt to foster awareness on the destructive nature of family abuse. This month Fairchild reaches out to offer assistance to those in need.

Domestic Violence includes any act of physical or psychological aggression against another person (typically a spouse, child or other cohabitant) that's used to dominate another.

In times of trouble, people are often too confused or afraid to seek help; programs are sometimes underfunded and relief seems out of reach, explains Stephen Pitters, Family Advocacy outreach manager. "But, people should know that there are programs right here at Fairchild that are geared to help them in these very difficult situations," he explained. "Many people don't even know that these programs exist."

Fairchild's family advocacy programs are focused on violence prevention and abstention, victim and perpetrator rehabilitation, awareness and other types of therapy, all which are available to base personnel and their families. Many of the programs focus on preventative measures to stop domestic violence before it begins; others center on assisting the abused in recovering strength.

Still, the family advocacy office is aware that not all Fairchild programs are appropriate or desirable for everyone. "If we don't have the program that's right for you here, or if you feel that you would be better suited somewhere away from base, then we can help you with that as well," said Mr. Pitters. "Our most pressing concern is to make sure that you're safe and taken care of."

"Some things that friends and coworkers should look for include frequent unexplained accidents, sudden changes in habits, isolation from friends, excessive drinking, financial difficulties, lethargy, and spouts of anger, among many other warning signs," he said. "While none of this alone signifies a victim or perpetrator of domestic violence, they are all indicators of abuse."

For families, friends and neighbors who suspect family abuse: don't hesitate to call a local authority and help stop the violence. "Friends and family can be a valuable asset to families of domestic abuse that are in need," affirms Mr. Pitters. "It's hard to see someone, especially children, endure that kind of abuse; it's the responsibility of those around to be aware and to help stop that abuse."

For more information on family advocacy programs contact the Family Advocacy office at 247-2687.